Monday, July 27, 2009
Is it possible to move out right now??? thoughts?
I'm so sick of a particular sibling that lives in this house and her husband. I can't do a single thing with my own mother for my own wedding without one of them jumping down my throat for every little thing. Take today for example. Sibling a, we will call her KB, yelled at me because i used her shoes to go over to Marie's house to pick up Marie's camera for tonight's D-Backs game. I get yelled at by her, fine whatever. Then this morning i find her shoes and yell down the hallway to her i found your shoes, their in the cubby where i left them. Then her husband just HAS to jump in. "We'll if you stop wearing her d*** shoes maybe she will stop using your stuff." i blow him off and go change for school and while I'm changing, he runs into the other room, takes ALL of Kb's shoes and locks them in her room, because i can so totally wear flip flops to a medical school. (IDOIT!) then i get home and their complaining because Taylor's toenail polish is coming off and i need to pick a new color, so i yell into the other room you want it done this color, fine do it yourself im busy. then he jumps down my throat AGAIN over the stupid shoes and how i keep jumping down both of their throats and im causing h*** to break loose at the house. mom agrees with me that he is acting like a child. then he slams the doors after mom tells him to chill out and he of course talks back like he does.and its just.. AHHH!!!!! I want to move out NOW. Forget waiting until after the wedding, i want out now and get the heck away from them. I'm already stressed about my own wedding, school, being carless, finding a house, and so much more. My emotions have no control at all when im here and poor bret has to suffer with me randomly crying because i dont know what else to do. i need out... any suggestions??
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There is always an open invitation for one of our rooms (if it gets to that point, you would just have to have a vehicle to get to and from school) I can completely understand what you are going through. They will never change, no matter how much we wish that they would change for the better, they are stuck in a rut and they seem to not want to dig there way out!!!! A wedding is a very stressfull time, and you are amazingly handling the small window that you have to get everything ready in with a good attitude. Sibling "A" and her husband probably cannot accept the fact that you are a grown up and that you are moving on to bigger and better things, and they wish that they could to, but they have made their choices and they have to take the longer route to achieve what all of your other siblings have achieved in this life. Just remember that Bret loves you lots and lots, and he really does understand you (maybe not completly, but he does) just continue to express your feelings to him, and emotions. It does relieve the stress that you are feeling when you cry, just sit on the kitchen floor and have a good cry. Who cares who sees you cry!!! (I do it) If it will make you relieve some stress make a paper chain of the countdown until you will be married and get to run your own house! Remeber that I told you that you would be completly stressed out. Just don't let Sibling "A" get you down, relish the time that you are having with your mother!!!! (if you want to hear Scott's comment to this above blog, you will need to call him, he has some strong words for them! not bad, but they are to strong for little eyes to see!!!)
ReplyDeleteHoly crap Dear! Talk about a novel. Hi Kayla!
ReplyDeleteI agree with Jodi and Scott. You can come stay at my house for a couple of days. If we get too pushy about things, tell us to back off. It won't hurt my feelings. Bret loves you, and he need to see the heck that you have put up with. It has/will make you a better, and stronger person. I think that KB and Gregg have finally figured out that Mom cares about more than just them. They are jealous. And I don't care if she reads this, or anyone tells her what I have said. They need to grow up and learn to live in the "Real World" instead of thier "fantasy world". Life sucks at times, we all have issues, but we go on day after day. Things were stressful right before my wedding as well. I think it is Satan's way of trying to not let the happy occassion occur. If you need an escape, my kids are willing and able to provide some laughter. Just give us a call.
ReplyDeleteKat, weddings are stressful enough without the added drama. this is YOUR time. It is YOUR wedding. You should have the right to monopolize your Mom as these are the times when you 2 get to plan and carry out the wedding you desire. It should be a fun time for the 2 of you. The offending party should back off. I agree with your sibs. If I were closer you could so use one of my room. Sounds like you have found an incredible guy to be married to.
ReplyDeleteps...bloodshed is not unfortunately not an option.
You could always move into our house and share a room with Emma (she would love that!) Then you could help her stay in her bed all night since you would be sharing the bed. hhmmm- I like that idea! You should move in here! I almost demand it!!! lol
ReplyDeleteRemember there is a lock on your door that you can use it at any time and put on uplifting music and get away. Also- I agree with Jodi that Satan is going to make it harder and harder to destroy what you are starting. If he can destroy a marriage and a family then he thinks he has won, but remember that the goal you want and strive with all you have to make it to the temple and continue working on your marriage. Then he can not win if you stay close to the Lord.
Kat,
ReplyDelete--Everyone in this family knows that the "IDIOT" and his wife need to start acting like adults and not like children. Everyone also know that mom needs to stop "protecting" them and make them grow up. "IDIOT" has no say on what goes on around the house because he does nothing himself but sit on his a** and piss oters off. His wife on the other hanf, needs to take care of her own kids, quit acting like she's "not feeling well" all the time. Pregnancies are tough...learn it the first time or dont get pregnant at all.
--You are always welcome to stay here at anytime and you know that. I know that everyone else has offered their places to you, but we are the closest to school and to Bret. You can always have Alexis' room, since she always ends up in our bed for some reason. I'm sure she'll enjoy our bed more anyway. Let me know, even though things are calmed down, ok?
OK, Why are you all being so "nice" about the two IDIOTS .... what the hell .... they will never leave moms house and we all know it. We all know that he is a child but he thinks he is a man ..... but you have tolook at his wife too .... she anit all that better... we all have our faults but it seems all they have more... DO NOT BLAME THE PREGANAT women for her husbands actions ..... God gave us the right to choose but we do not have the right to choose our
ReplyDeleteConsequences in life. Yes mom protects them but if you think about it she is actualy protecting those little ones. Its not thier fault that their parents need to face reality and GROW UP!
Any who ... Kayla & Bret thanks for the game last night we had a blast. Sorry we were not as talkative as we would have liked but working such early in the morning and Hayden being sick we were tired!. We need to go out again maybe for dinner ... NO RAW FISH !!!
Just think Bret loves YOU ! Not our family but YOU. He wants to share his life with YOU .... yes your family will be in it too (we always are) but its YOUR life. That is partly why we moved so out to TIMBUCKTOO ... Ü no family that can " show up" with out us know .... Remember I am here and so is my home ! You can stay or vist anytime ...
meditation!!! You have a lot on your plate girl!!! Need to find a happy place and not let others ruin what is suppose to be the best time of your life...planning your future with the one you love!!
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